Friday, August 31, 2012

The Woombie

I love to swaddle James, and he sleeps better when he is swaddled.  I hate it that he constantly breaks out of the blanket though.  We use the Swaddleme blankets, and I like how soft and thin they are. But once those arms are free James is awake.  I was at a little store we have here in the town I live in and they carry a brand called Woombie. I looked them up on the web and love their swaddle design. 

http://www.thewoombie.com/convertible_leggies.html


They have many more types to choose from, but this is my favorite. I like that you can eventually let the arms free but he would still feel "swaddled" because of the design.  I really wish that I knew someone who had used these before so I would know if they really work well or not. I would hate to spend money and have them not work well.  But I might just bite the bullet and buy one and see how it goes. I think it would help James sleep through the night and I would finally get a full nights sleep!

My "nursing journey"


Before I was even pregnant I knew that I wanted to breastfeed. To me it was the only option of nourishment for my future babies.  While I was pregnant I made sure that Joshua knew that I did not want to give our baby any bottles of formula. Thankfully he agreed with me and is 100% supportive of my decision.  I’m three months into my “nursing journey” and wouldn’t change my decision to do it for anything!

I did have concerns while pregnant that I might not be able to nurse. I wondered if I would produce enough milk for the baby. I have heard of women who want to nurse but for some reason beyond their control can’t.

James was born on a Wednesday and the nurses weighed him at 2am Thursday and he had dropped from 8lbs 3oz to 7lbs 11oz. The nurse made sure to tell me that if he lost 10% of his body weight I would have to supplement with formula. Again Friday morning about 2am the nurse came in to weigh him and this time he was down to 7lbs 6.2oz. The nurse immediately said that I was going to have to supplement and I told her that I wanted a pump; again she said I would still have to give formula. I started to cry instantly because I wasn’t going to give him formula, that wasn’t an option to me. The nurse realized I was crying and said that she would check on the computer and hopefully it wasn’t 10% of his weight lost so far. I got lucky that it 9% (I think). I told her that if a doctor said he wasn’t getting enough to eat and needed formula that I would give it to him, but not before then. 

The pediatrician came in on Friday morning and checked James out and said that he looked great. He wasn’t overly concerned about his weight loss. He did want his weight checked the next day so we scheduled for a nurse to come to the house and check it.

My milk came in on Saturday morning and James started gaining weight after that. By James’ two week appointment he was above his birth weight, and has been gaining steadily since. He normally nurses around 10 minutes a side. He will take bottles of breast milk every now and then.  I have been pumping since a few days after my milk came in, and sometimes will pump before a feeding so that Joshua can feed him.

I do not plan on going back to work anytime soon, but I still pump at least once a day and put it in the freezer so that I have a supply built up. Right now I have over a day’s worth of milk frozen!

I enjoy feeding James, and love that I am his source of food. Early on when I was very tired in the middle of the night there were times I wished that I was just giving him formula and that Joshua could just get up with him. But I know I have made the best decision for James in not giving him formula. I plan on nursing him until he is a year old. I’m not gonna be one of those crazy people who nurse the kid until they are 3.

I know that breastfeeding isn’t for everyone, but it has definitely been the right decision for me and my baby. I plan on breastfeeding any future babies that we have.
 

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Monthly pictures

 


Pictures!

Just before heading to the hospital
 Me waiting to go into the operating room
Joshua playing with the camera
 I think the c-section was going on
 Fresh out of the womb
 Screaming baby boy
 Cute little feet
 His weight
 Joshua brought him to see me!
He was screaming the whole time until I held him!
 Checking out my baby boy in the recovery room

 Joshua holding James in the recovery room



James Hamilton Lovett III

I'm not good at this whole blog thing, but I have decided that I want to document things regarding James' life and this is a great way to do it.  I have some catching up to do. :)

Wednesday May 23rd I was scheduled for a c-section at 10am. I had to be at the hospital at 8:30am to check in and get prepped for the surgery.  I was very mad that Joshua had to go into a waiting room while the nurse got me hooked up to an iv and asked me a ton of questions. I didn't understand why he couldn't be in there with me during that time.  They finally let him come in the room with me, and they also allowed one other person. My mom and Josh's mom took turns to come see me before going back for surgery.  Right about 10am they wheeled me back, and once again sent Josh to the waiting room.  It took some time to get the spinal in, I was a difficult patient. Once they got the spinal in and had me laid down on the table they let Josh come in the room.  It didn't take long at all for James to be born. He arrived at 10:37am weighing in at 8lbs 3oz and 20 inches long.  The doctor held him up over the curtain and the only thing I said was, "he has hair!" Josh went over to where the nurses had him and were cleaning him up and all I could hear them saying was that he had a big head, and he was crying like crazy. A few minutes later they transferred me to a bed and handed me my little guy. It was so good to finally be holding him after waiting so long.

When Joshua brought James to see me
In the recovery room
 
Headed home!
I stayed in the hospital until Friday the 25th. I could have stayed one more day, but I was sick of trying to get in and out of the bed. I figured getting in my own bed would be much easier since it was lower to the ground.  We had to have a nurse come to the house on Saturday to weigh James because he had dropped to 7lbs 6.2oz as of very early Friday morning. They wanted to make sure that he didn't lose too much more or they were going to make me give him formula.  Thankfully he had only lost .2oz as of when the nurse came. My milk had come in on Saturday so he was finally getting more to eat at each feeding. 

On Memorial day we went up to the hospital for Joshua to get the Tdap vaccine and we got James weighed while we were there.  He had gained a few ounces, I can't remember what it was though.  At his one week check up he weighed 7lbs 10.5oz. The doctor was happy with the way he was gaining, but told me to wake him up every three hours to eat even during the night. He wanted him to get above his birth weight before we let him sleep longer at night.  At two weeks he weighed 8lbs 5oz. He was finally above his birth weight!

At his one month appointment July 2nd he was 21inches, and 11lbs 11oz. He was definitely getting enough food! The doctor mentioned that I might have to stop demand feeding him cause we didn't want him to gain too much weight. He was eating every three hours around the clock at that point.  Shortly after that appointment he started to sleep a little longer at night, and while I was in GA at the end of July he transitioned himself to a 4 hour schedule.

August 6th was his 2 month appointment. He was 23.5inches and 13lbs 9.5oz.  The doctor was very happy with his growth and said he looked great!  He had to get 4 shots, he was only supposed to get 2, but one that was a combo shot they were out of so they had to do individual shots. He was very unhappy about getting them, but cheered up quickly.  He doesn't go back to the doctor until October 16th for his 4 month appointment, and he will be almost 5 months old then.  Our doctor is out of town at the beginning of the month for 2 weeks. Must be nice!

Since James isn't being seen for a 3 month appointment I took him to be weighed yesterday and he is 14lbs 14.6oz. By his next appointment I think he will be over 16lbs. I'm feeding my boy well!

James is a very happy baby and loves to be held.  He wasn't put down in his first week of life except at night to sleep.  I think that really helped make him a calmer baby. He loves to play on his play mat, and will talk to the toys above him. He loves it when I sing songs to him, and sometime he will "sing" along with me.  It's so funny to listen to him "talk", he gets so loud sometimes.

I can't believe how quickly he is growing and changing. It really seems like every day he gets bigger and his personality comes out more. I really would like for time to slow down just a little bit.

I tried to put more pictures with this, but for some reason they aren't posting. I will do another post with just pictures. Even though I don't think anyone reads this. At least I will have it to look back at down the road.